Im not married and I didnt get pregnant!!

Sophie is officially mine. Got her birth cert yesterday (I prayed like 100x) on my way to JPN. Fortunately, they just asked for my IC and some documents and the cert is done. Well, people has been talking about mesince the first time a good friend of mine posted Sophie's picture on Facebook. A lot of them were asking "When did I get married?", "When she got pregnant?".. The answer is I never got married and were never pregnant. I got Sophie from someone provided I take care of her during her pregnancy. Thats the answer to those questions. Wanted to just shut those people off but I know the more I talk, the more they will ask so I just better shut my moth and wait for them to accept the fact that I have a baby.

For the past few months, a lot of things happened to me. Taking care of a young pregnant girl was not easy. It's just like taking care of your teenage daughter. Cook for her la... Ask where and with whom she's going out with la.. Bring her to the doctor la.. Not only that, my family and friends were not supportive when what I really needed was their support to keep me going. And a lot of them said it's hard la... I need a lot of money to raise a kid.. Adopted child is not the same as real ones.. HAIZZZ!!!!!

Motherhood

Being a single mother is not as hard as what some people think as long as you have the desire to do so. I am a single mother since 9 days ago when I adopted baby Sophie. Im feeling excited everyday.. I just cant wait to finish work everyday just to see Sophie. Yes. I am a mother now to a baby girl, Sophie Romana who was born on the 23rd of February. The feeling of seeing her growing up day by day is unimaginable. Giving her milk, changing diapers, waking up late at night.. It was hard at first but Im getting used to it.

My mom and her appendicitis..

I took half day leave yesterday just to visit my mom. My sister and her fiance visited her the day before and told me that she looked pale. Actually, on Friday night, she had been complaining about the pain in her stomach, so, on Saturday morning she was brought to Sime Darby Healthcare to see what's going on. After some checkups, the doctor identified that she has appendicitis and was admitted right away. I think she went for her operation on the same day itself.


What made me angry was the fact that my younger sister didn't even know that she was admitted to the hospital and my mom had undergone a surgery. I even called her that Saturday itself to see what she doing and have a small talk. Apparently, she was still sleeping and everyone has gone out.

Ok..So, back to my story... Yesterday I told her that I was going to come over. WHAT HAPPENED?? She has forgotten that I was coming and went out for shopping. I was like.. "What!!! You're sick and you still have that energy to go out and shop??"

Well, I guess, she's just a Superwoman..

Christmas Holiday in Sabah - Part 1 (Monuboh)

I decided to join my aunts and cousins to catch fish in the sea and some of the Kadazan people call this way of catching fish as "Monuboh".

We went to the Lokawi at 5.30am when the sea water is low. Imagine... We walked till we reach to a stage where we were surrounded by corals. At the end of the day, I was over-exhausted with my pain on my foot due to the corals that I have to step though I was wearing shoes.

It was 6.00 when I took this photo. We were walking halfway.

See all the corals. IT'S A LOT!!!

My niece caught something. She actually caught more fishes than me.

My 'sinaging'. That is what we called it. These are all the fishes that I caught.

I caught this one and Im so proud of it. We called it, "Nemo's friend".

Me!! Hahaha...

I just took this photo coz I was wondering who made this hole.

The beach was full of starfishes. I joked and asked my niece to pick all the starfishes and make starfish soup.

Resting after eating while waiting for 2 more aunts to come back.

The crab caught by my 8 years old nephew.

Jalan-jalan cari makan at Sri Murni SS2

I bet everyone who lives somewhere in KL must know Sri Murni.. If you've been to Sri Murni, you will know how famous is it by looking at the crowd.

Well, last week I went there with my sister, her fiance, my boyfriend and cousin. My sister wanted to 'belanja makan'.. We ordered 5 types of food which are Nasi Goreng Lamb Chop, Nasi Goreng Napoleon, Nasi Goreng Chicken Chop and the most famous Nasi Goreng Bacon and Roti Hawaii.. My sister paid around RM90 but it's worth paying since the food is good and the size of 1 meal is consider big (for us la...).

Here's some of the pictures which we have taken. For your information, we didnt see our litter cousin for quite some time now so last week was the time to 'melepaskan rindu'..

Makan Time.. Guys=Eat First, Girls=Take Photo first, the foods come second

My sister's Nasi Goreng Bacon

While waiting...Camwhoring..

Camwhoring again..

We're just trying to give the best pose..

I cant stop but looking at my cousin (green shirt)...She's so cuteee...

Hope the 2 guys who attacked my dad enjoy the money they got from my dad...

'Sigh'...Last week it was about my father's friend being attacked by a crocodile..This week my father was attacked after withrawing RM600 from his bank by this 2 guys. Well, he was actually about to reach his car when he was attacked from the back with a knife. All that he heard from one of the guy was "Duit atau Nyawa?"/"Money or Life?" and of course he gave all of his money.

So last night I called him just to chit-chat with him and it was strange when he seemed to not to have a good mood. At first he didnt want to tell what actually happened to him but after a while, he gave up since I didnt stop asking. I told him that we will replace back the money but he insisted. Instead, he said he will borrow some money from his friends. So I got angry la because I dont want him to burden himself with debt. I told him, it's better if his daughters give him money than asking for debt. At last he agreed and today I sent him RM700.

Im just glad nothing happened to my dad...If not...

I Love My new House and I miss my grandparents..

First of all, let me just tell how much I like my new house; environment, the people i live with, neighbours, big parking space, cleanliness....

Second, my grandparents went back to Sabah yesterday. I have been missing them since yesterday and I hope this very sad feeling will go soon. Argh..I hate goodbyes. Yesterday, when we were at the airport, I was so angry when they didnt turned back and wave.... I will miss playing with my grandma, I'll miss how my grandpa always talk about my cousins and his interesting stories, teasing my grandma... Hopefully, I can go back to Sabah soon...'Sigh'

Elder sister engagement party

It was held on the 20th of June. To be frank, I was quite nervous about it. I was actually nervous to see how my grandpa (mama's dad) would react when he sees my dad (my grandpa doesnt really like my dad actually) and also how my mom's reaction after not seeing my dad for almost 20 years.

So, how was it? Well, it went so well, I mean even better than I expected. I was very happy to see how well my mom's side treated my dad's side. Overall, everyone had so much fun!!

Below are some of the pictures...

THEM with me anf my friends..


Me and my good friends..

With Brian's grandma and cousins

My sister future mother-in-law

Happy Engagement Ceara and Brian




My brother and sisters. and future bro-in-law..There will be 2 Brians in the family now...heheh..

Im HomeLess

Actually Im not.....

I have been very busy finding house for me and my sister to stay.. Btw, there will be 4 of us staying..Me, my boyfriend, my sister and her fiance..Don't really know where to stay actually and which area is the most strategic for us to stay..Well, actually my sister is working in Ampang, me in Puchong and Barry in Cyberjaya. So, maybe Barry can send me to work and my sister can use my car to work and that is why we're trying to find a place to stay somewhere in the middle of Ampang and Cyberjaya.

Actually, we were thinking of staying somewhere in Bukit Jalil but seems like its too expensive.. Our budget is only around RM600 - RM800 per month. Earlier this evening we went to Turf View. Well, actually I kinda like that place. The biggest unit is about 1400 s.f with 4 rooms and I really loved it especially because it has big living room and balcony. But, my mom ended up not liking that place. She said the deposit is too expensive which is 3 months deposit + 1 month rental + agreement = (RM850*3) + RM850 + RM200 = RM3600. VERYYYY EXPENSIVE!!!

So now, I guess we will just have to wait for Barry to come back from Sabah, which is today. Apart of missing him and can't wait to see him, we need him to be there to see another house in Puncak Jalil. It seems like the house is affordable and big(double storey terrace house). Im not quite sure why is it cheap but according to my sister's fiance, it is difficult to find public transport over there (which is okay to us..) We'll just see how it turns out...

Quote for today:-
And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.

wE wiLL juSt prEtenD..

'sigh'...I know i shouldn't be talking about her (my housemate) but I can't stand it anymore.. Furthermore, nobody knows her here, so, rather than talking about her in front of people who knows her, guess it's better here.. I came to this house about 5 months ago when I decided to move in with my cyg.. When I first came to the house, cyg told me that the girl is engaged and going to get married in June. Her fiance asked cyg to look after that girl coz before this she was cought cheating behind her fiance's back where she brought back a guy (who's also 1 of my friend and didnt even know that she's engaged). That girl even talked to me about what she did in the past, how she betrayed her fiance and how her fiance almost cancel the wedding....and she said, she wont do it again and she really regret everything that happened. So, I was like 'good lah'...

4 months later.....

She brought back a guy home pretending to be her friend. Seconds after we closed our room door, she already brought the guy to her room and 'I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED IN THERE'..

This things has been going on for weeks and the girl is getting married in a week time. The sad part is, her fiance does not know anything. He thought that his fiance has changed.

I dont know whether it is right for us(me and cyg) to keep quiet. But we have decided to move out of this house a.s.a.p. Ohya, the worst thing is, everyone in this house knows about it (the girl's elder bro, younger bro and sis-in law) yet everyone is like using that situation to take advantage of that girl. So, rather than telling her to stop, they just keep quiet as long as :-

Elder Bro : Can use the other car which he has been prohibited to use.
Sis-in-law : Can bring other guys home when his husband is not ard. Its like, u keep my secret and I will keep yours.
Younger Bro : He's dumb i guess.

I just wanna wish them...Good Luck in life....

Quote for the day:
You will never know what you got till it's gone...